Joy of Living your Own Life

......It then dawned on me, isn't that what happens in life when we focus on competing with co-workers, neighbours, friends, family, trying to outdo them or trying to prove that we are more successful or more important and in the bargain we miss on our happiness within our own surroundings?
We spend our time and energy running after them and we miss out on our own paths to our given destination.
The problem with unhealthy competition is that it's a never-ending cycle.
There will always be somebody ahead of you,

someone with a better job,🏃
nicer car, 🚗
more money in the bank, 💲
more education, 📖
a prettier wife, 👩
a more handsome husband, 👨
better behaved children, 👪
better circumstances and 💢
better conditions etc.💪
But one important realisation is that You can be the best that you can be when you are not competing with anyone.
Some people are insecure because they pay too much attention to what others are, where others are going,
wearing and driving, what others are talking.
Take whatever you have, the height, the weight and personality.
Accept it and realize, that you are blessed. Stay focused and live a healthy life.

There is no competition in Destiny. Each has his own.

Comparison AND Competition is the thief of JOY.
It kills the Joy of Living your Own Life.

Run your own Race that leads to Peaceful, Happy Steady Life.

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